Looking for Mr. Right. I want to talk about something different this time. Well, it's a different topic for me. I've been single for awhile by choice. I've gotten to the point where it's time for me to get out of my safety net and take it to another level. I'll keep this short, sweet, and to the point because relationships are really not that deep. The key is keep it simple. Things get difficult sometimes because we make it hard. Here's some things I want to share. If you don't agree don't bitch, just enlighten me.

I think being in a relationship is like looking in a mirror. It's all good in the beginning, then after a few months all the emotions start coming out. In other words, 'baggage'...Then the challenge comes as to whether the two of you are really made for each other and can withstand the test of time. Half the time we pick the wrong people prior to being able to figure out exactly what we want. It's important to know what you want instead of allowing someone to pick you when you were never interested from the beginning. It should go both ways. Not just one person being interested and doing all the chasing. It's definitely something off if someone has to chase you.

You have to take time to get to know someone. Talk on the phone, go on some dates and meet the folks, learn his/her patterns prior to giving up the cookies. If a person does not want to wait then ask yourself if this is what you want. If it's not then stick to it. You do not have to cave or change your values for nobody. It's about you and what you want. If you indulge in one night stands while searching for Mr. Right, just know your role. Don't fail to remember you could get pregnant, std, or you could get attached. Sex is spiritual. When you sleep around your sleeping with too many spirits. Let's be real about this. If you must do this then don't get attached and consider you might have some kind of attachment issue and may need help...Seriously.

Ladies there are so so many good men out there and vice verse. Just because your 'good people' does not mean that someone is right for you. A person has to fit you like a glove. You should feel content to be yourself when your around him/her. He/she should accept, understand and 'get you'. He/she should be able to make you a priority and keep it 100 at all times.

The bottom line is learn from all your mistakes and don't dwell. Be able to move on gracefully because past relationships are only preparing you for the 'right one'. So ladies and gents get your pen and paper and start the interviews. Expand your search, but don't settle. The Right One is waiting to accept the position. In the meantime, have fun! So with that being said, I'm about to go snatch me something up! I'll definitely be back for part two...Smooches