You can't get blood from a turnip. I know that's a very cold statement, but it is what it is. The people that we love the most can take us for granted. This includes Family, Friends and significant others. It is not known to me why this is the case, but it's time for us to start fighting back and take a stand as far as not allowing our loved ones to walk all over us simply because they are our loved ones. My philosophy is "letting go means you love yourself." In other words, you have to train people how to treat you which sometimes includes letting go. If someone cares enough for you they will figure out how to come correctly. If they just don't give a damn, then you never had anything to work with in the first place. If this is the case, then why cry over spilled milk. Save the tears for someone who cares about you, because they're are not crying over you. I had to let go of a loved one before. In the beginning it was hard, but then I started feeling alot of peace and serenity. With that came a new sense of self. This person I'm talking about then had to choose to treat me right or let go. They choose to treat me right. That's how I found out This person really did love me. I had to love myself enough to find out if this person really loved me. This person is my mom and today we have a much more pleasant interaction with one another. It was definitely worth the fight. I'm not cold. I just did what I needed to do to earn respect from her. No one is exempt. I would definitely do it again. If that person doesn't love me enough to come correctly, it was never worth it anyway. Peace